Art of Starting Over: Relationships Prayer

Your biggest stressor isn’t always money, even when it looks like it is. When I meet with a new client in a Vision Session, my goal is to figure out the root cause of their stress. Most people think what they want and need is more money, but when I examine their true desires something else is revealed. Studies may show that money is the number one cause of stress whether you have a little or a lot, but the stressor we often ignore is our relationships. 

For some, it is a lack of connection. For others, it is co-dependency. For many, it is distrust.

Whether you are too busy, too tired, or too hurt to build your relationships the way you want to, this prayer I once wrote for a client might help you. After a Vision session clients move on to a Clarity Session where we break down the 7-Prosperity Pillars. 

The Prosperity Pillars are money, health, recreation, reputation, time, location, and relationships, and they remind us that real success is comprehensive and holistic. Many successful people give most of their energy to money and reputation and not enough to everything else. But success is about more than money, it is about meaning.

This could be the year you commit to loving fully and completely, not just in romance but in friendship, family, and community. I wrote this relationship prayer for a client who was very monetarily successful but had no luck in relationships. I’m sharing it with you because it may give you courage to admit what needs to be done and permission to release the old relationship constructs that no longer fit.

Pray for what you want. Adjust the words to fit your life. Just remember to speak in the present and with gratitude. You are not begging for the relationships you desire; you are saying thank you for what you already deserve.

Let us pray…

I declare and pray that I have strong relationships. I am in covenant with myself, my higher power and my present and future loved ones. I let go so that I may renew in myself a clean heart and wash away any remnants of bad relationships and past hurt. 

Please make my heart whole again. 

I take action with clear intentions toward my success in my business and personal relationships. I carefully find harmony between my many roles and enjoy each moment I get to be my authentic self. I give to each role its full potential and allow the Universe to shape my path. I commit to investing my time and energy into God’s people. 

I am grateful for the love and many blessings that life has bestowed on me. Please continue to create healthy, fruitful relationships in my life and let my heart be open to the partner, the friends, and romance that has been prepared for me. I know that my loved ones are honest, loving, steadfast, ambitious, generous, wise, faithful, willing and resilient like me. I accept them now and as they grow. 

Whether they are in my life for a reason, a season or a lifetime I am fully committed to that time frame. I look forward to being my full authentic self and the person I was born to be in every relationship that comes to me. I also promise to give my loved ones space when they need it and to shower them with encouragement when they need that too. 

Starting today love will shine above anything that I have ever experienced and I will see it clearly. When someone finds a loved one they find a good thing; for I am that good thing. That loved one who makes life easier. With ease, I also attract into my life loved ones that make my life easier. 

The loved ones that take me into their lives are blessed today and all the days. They will recognize that I am more precious than rubies and more valuable than gold. And I will allow my characteristics to shine into their life all that might have been missing. We compliment each other. I trust and adore my good friends, family, and community members. 

I promise to give them all that they need and want in a loved one, as they love me the same way back. 

We will consciously take care of our business and take care of each other with full dedication. God/Universe we will work to provide for your people and invest in them the same way you have invested in us. My loved ones are conscious, loving people who make this world a more peaceful place. 

We will share our time, energy, resources and love with the world.

I believe and I am thankful that all things are right and good in my life. I share my blessings with those around me. I will cultivate all my relationships and appreciate them. I trust and utilize my support network and give support to them in return. I am able to receive with ease. My hands are open and I attract prosperous relationships. 

I am thankful that this is the year of favor; therefore I expect favor to be in full manifestation every day of my life. I am entitled to covenant favor, kindness, preferential treatment and unfair partiality. This favor will produce great victories, overwhelming peace and divine increase. I have favor in my relationships, but also favor in my career, health, time, location, recreation, and favor in my reputation. I am known as the one with favor and I have favor in my peace of mind. 

I vow to be great in all my titles (fill in your titles and say them out loud). I am in agreement with this declaration and for that reason I am at peace because I love freely and completely. 

I am at peace…

P.S. If you missed it, here is last week's Clarity Prayer.